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I've been accused of and also have become cognizant of my own emotional unavailability.
Usually it's because I present myself as I normally do but whomever I'm seeing gets more attached and wants to be up under me when I have digested my true feelings for them yet. They get hurt, I get to be the bad guy and get all sorts of shaming and pseudo-psychoanalysis fussing out. So…since i don't want to continuously be the bad guy, I just opted out of the game altogether. Maybe I'll go back in, but it's not really worth it if I'm just a disappointment.

I remember distinctly listening to a recent acquaintance go on and on about how I'm a catch. Flattering, but It's man-stroking. She was placing me higher than I was and should've been and I told her "ease up…I'm not that perfect." Needless to say 4 weeks later and she hates me. No biggie. I'll just leave the rest of the SBM to have at all these wonderful women folk out here who are nothing but bonafide angels.

Good article and it's definitely been on my mind. I'm hoping to be open to dating sometime next March.

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August 29, 2011 at 3:10 pm